Do you want more from life but you have no idea what that means or how to go about achieving it? Do you find yourself spending countless hours over-thinking and strategically planning the details yet you’re immobilized by fear? Break it down into smaller steps and each day do one thing that empowers you. Start with health – take control of your diet and your exercise (of course you must see the doctors to make sure you’re not falling apart). Step away from that glass of Malbec and get to the nearest gym or sexy pole fitness class.
While taking care of the body, make sure hair is coiffed and nails are lacquered. Wear your sexy lingerie – it should never be saved for a special moment. Boost your confidence levels and put your best self forward. It becomes a natural way of being. As time progresses, you will see that it’s effortlessly your lifestyle…chic and sexy. This transfers to any environment. If you work outside of the home, answer your phone with authority, walk into those meetings and sit next to the senior staff. You will draw energy and feel powerful from knowing you are stepping out of the comfort zone. If you happen to work from la maison, awaken early in the morning, check exercise off the list, and dress as if a guest might stop by. Sweat pants around the house are a sign of defeat.
Do you want to go to school and obtain your degree? Do it!! I completed two degrees (not on-line) with trois enfants in tow. Do you want to climb the corporate ladder? What’s stopping you? Just make sure you don’t look like the secretary!! Dress for where you want to go, not where you are. Pay attention to your shoes, accessories, make-up and the fit and fall of your couture. Read your daily journals, meet the necessary people and lastly, don’t socialize with everyone. Ask your boss to lunch. Sit and have tea with him/her. Do whatever it takes to stand out in the crowd. The confidence to take on any goals comes from simply doing. You can absolutely have it all.
Now that’s dripping sexy…