I am not much of a golfer. I don’t pretend to be. Yes, I know deals are made on the course but they can also be made in the clubhouse, while sitting in the air condition with a glass of champagne in hand too…right?? RIGHT?? Anyone who know me understands that I don’t do sun. I will coordinate events or decline to attend because of the brutal sun rays. Strictly from a vanity standpoint – why accelerate the aging process? Have you seen skin that has taken a beating from years of being exposed?
When I do play a sport, I am always prepared – fashionably speaking. I may not have mastered the sport, but I do look my very best. Don’t you show up with pearls and 5 inch heels? Name any activity and I’m almost certain I have the right accoutrements (perhaps with the exception of basketball – I refuse to wear anything oversized and sloppy). The goal is to approach all my tasks as prepared as possible. Is it mind over matter? Absolutely! Do I think I have the potential to sink the birdie or make a hole-in-one on a par 3? You bet! Hopefully, if these miracles ever took place, there is someone to document and corroborate the details because I will be telling the story for the rest of my life.
If you find yourself constantly unprepared, why is that? Is it the fear of whatever you’re facing? Is it a lack of self-worth? Search within and get to the core of what prevents you from being a key player. In the work place, are you lacking the necessary skills to propel you into a higher paying position? Go to school and obtain the necessary tools or ask your boss to assist you. Are you a couch potato and refuse to hit the gym because you don’t resemble the other fitspirations or you’re worried about looking ridiculous as you break a sweat? Get yourself some new fashion forward attire and go after it. I’m pretty sure that I’m the only one who hits the gym at 5 a.m. with red lipcandy or pink glossy lips and cutesy clothes. Why do I have to look like I just rolled out of bed simply because I did?? It’s a mind game. When you look good, it’s empowering. You have a bit of pep in your step and your head is held higher. Apply that principle to everything you do.
Now that’s dripping sexy…
